ONE-SIDED-LOVE

           One-sided love is when you love someone who doesn’t loved you back the way you do. It usually happens when you just push yourself to someone you like or love but couldn’t treat you the way you want it to be. With this kind of love, the one’s suffering, so much giving and understanding is the person who loves his/her partner so much to the extent that he/she becomes selfless the common effects of these to his/her partner is to become abusive, selfish and too much confident on their relationship. This type of love will never work no matter how hard you try, cause everybody know that building a better relationship starts with a good partnership, but how come?!? If you’re the only one who works for it. At the end of the day you’ll get tired and get  pity as yourself and you’ll say. “It’s enough, this is too much !” this is similar to a parasite syndrome, the one who gives love is your host and the one who receives is your parasite. The parasite will just suck your love till the last drop of it and you as the host will surely become , weak and dying slowly inside as the time goes by, so this kind of relationship isn’t healthy along the way, a year or two is enough to test if you could learn him/her to love you back, if it’s not enough of wasting time and energy for someone who doesn’t deserve you and don’t know how to appreciate good things coming from you. Letting go is such a hard thing to do but moving on is much harder thing to accept and to apply. It’s a long term process that only you could help yourself. Sometimes you need to do a mistake to get the solution for your problem cause after all, regrets always in the end.