WHAT IS CRUSH?

All of us has a crush! And who else is none?.. Crush is not only about love it is also admiring someone who has a good attitude maybe it is also about the physical appearance. The word crush has a lot of aspect so let’s see what are those.

What comes to your mind if someone ask you “what is crush?” Some says inspiration, admirer, the person who will completed your day, person that makes you happy when you saw him. Let’s try to explain what this is. Crush is admiring someone that he/she has an attitude that you love or you like. For example I admire my neighbour for being a hardworking person. But the most answer is they are the type of people that when you saw them you “kinikilig”.Mostly the group of friends are like crazy they “hinahampas” “kinukurot” their friends. I will quote something as my experience about this “crush is admiration, sometimes it fades away but mostly it becomes severe” Yes! I thought it was only crush then after how many months I realize that this is more than a crush I don’t know what is the best word for that feeling but I know that is not love. For the circle of friends crushes one of the most interesting topic to discuss because all of them can relate to the topic. Sometimes they laugh, mad, asking them why he/she??and then when they knew their crushes they teasing the person to their cushes and most of the time they become couple. Sometimes it last for a year but mostly last only for how many months. Maybe because they are not serious they just pressured. Sometimes they love to.. they call this as “mantrip”. That relationship was pressured by their friends.

Try to be careful think first.. Sometimes crush could be the reason for being broken hearted and sometimes it affects your studies.

BARKADA

Some says that “barkada” is import but to others it’s destruction in their lives. Now let’s see what are the advantages and disadvantages of this.

For me having circle of friends is important. We know that not all people can open their feelings to their family maybe they are shy to express it, others are broken family and some are afraid because they we’re adopted and that’s the role of your friends to comfort you when you’re in need. Barkada is simply serves as our second family but some they consider friends as their first why because they didn’t felt the love of their true family. Barkada gives you an advice to make you feel better they also there when you’re down and simply support you when you have problems. Barkada is really fun and guess what I also experience happiness with them. They change you, change you to become a better person and change your bad attitudes but take note not all of them are good it depends to the person with whom you will go because each of us have different habits. Some can cause you in trouble others will change you from worst to better or vice versa. But if you chose the right people I’m sure you will be thankful just like me. I’m thankful that I have friends a circle of friends. Their always there for me, treat me as if they are my real family. Sometimes I shared most of my experiences to them rather than to my family because not everything that has happened or will happen your parents can understand. And also I’m not that open with my parents. Another disadvantages of barkada is they force you to do the thing you didn’t want and because you refuses them to get angry you’ll just do it even if it’s wrong!!

So in choosing your circle of friends you must first know their attitude before you come to them.. Think RIGHT and choose what’s BEST for you.
              

SECRETLY IN LOVE

        

Some people are afraid to show their feelings to someone they love because they don’t want to be hurt when they knew that someone they love has an opposite feelings and they keep it as a secret.

        Secretly in love with someone comes first in crush. You admire him/her for being kind, beautiful, handsome, hardworking and many more. Until it comes a time that you felt happy whenever you saw him. Your sad when you not see him just like your day is not complete without his presence. Affected when you know that he is sad or he has a problem. Feeling jealous when you know that he has a crush with someone else. You missed him every day. Worried if he is sick that you want him to know that you cared for him. But all of these are knew only by yourself. If you felt all of these I think you’re in love! Sometimes it’s hard to pretend that you’re not in love most especially if the person you loved is not your friend.. He is just your neighbor with no communication. Imagine how hard it is. The only thing you can do is to imagine that two of you are friends. Sometimes some people stalk them to know something from him. It’s really hurt that you know on yourself that there are ways to tell to someone your feeling yet your frightened to be a hindrance for it to be done.

6 SIGNS HE'S FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU

Falling in love is a wonderful thing that nearly everyone out there gets to experience at some point. I admit that it is hard to tell when a guy is falling in love with you. They can send such mixed signals! Below, I am going to give you 6 signs he is falling in love with you.

6. HE LOVES SPENDING TIME WITH YOU
It just goes without saying that when you’re in love, you enjoy spending time with the person you are in love with.Does he decide to spend time with you? Instead of going out with his buddies and  instead of doing one of his favorite hobbies. If so, then watch out...he may just be falling for you!

5. HE CAN TALK WITH YOU FOR A LONG TIME
Guys do not like to "talk things through" when they're upset. Many guys don’t like to talk at all. However, when they find a girl that they enjoy spending time with, they feel as if they could talk for a very long time.

4. HE GETS YOU GIFTS
Sure, every guy can get a girl a gift. However, if he gets you gifts AND matches some of my signs, then you may have yourself a keeper. The more special the gifts, the more you mean to him.

3. HE OFFERS TO TAKE YOU OUT TO DINNER AND A MOVIE
If the guy would rather take you out to dinner and a movie every Friday than spend time with his friends clubbing, he may be in love with you. It's even better if he lets you pick the movie and is more than happy to watch whatever you .Needless to say, this is a two way street and sometimes you should go watch his kind of movies as well. It'll make him happier and make him fall in love with you even more.

2. HE LOVES “CUDDLE TIME”
Cuddle time is the time where the two of you hold one another and talk. You know, share the fondest memories together, talk about your lives, your past, even silly stuff that you can't share with everyone.

1. HE TELLS YOU HE LOVES YOU
Okay, why not cut to the chase and just say “I love you?” Many guys will not tell a girl that they love them if they do not really mean it. If they tell you that they love you and want to be with you for a long time and they match the signs of some of my other tips, then you may have a guy who is actually in love with you!

HOW TO MAINTAIN LOVE?

How do you keep the spice alive? Besides staying in bed a little more, try to romance each other a little more. Think about all the things you use to do when you first started dating, but then you both got too busy, it is now time to take up those things again. Or think up some new hobbies you would both love to experience together. Learning new things can stir up some new passions for the hobby and for each other. Take each other out on dates. Just because you have been together forever, doesn’t mean that you stop liking dates. And it does not have to be expensive either. Go for a walk in the park with a picnic. Or cuddle up together and watch love movies. Give each other more compliments and whisper sweet love phrases into each other’s ears. And don’t forget to really listen to each other. Know that your sad love story can turn into a happy one!

Breakups do happen. We have all experienced sad love stories at one time or another. However, before you breakup, make sure you have tried with all your heart to rekindle that love. Communicate more about making love and making money. And remember, money is not evil, the love of it is. Fight less and love more. Look for the good things in your partner, not the bad. Stay strong and stay in love. Know that your love life may be a sad love story now, but the two of you can have a bright future full of love.

TWO MAIN REASON OF BREAKUP

A love story turns into a sad love story, when your heart breaks. Breaking up from someone you love is very difficult for everybody. What causes breakups? Is there any hope left for you two to get back together? What can you do to prevent future breakups? Do you believe in true love? Does it really exist? Read on to find out a few answers to these love aching questions.

When you first fall in love with someone, you think the two of you will be together forever. You know in your heart that you are suppose to be with them. You know that you will have a happy ever after, but then what happens? Your heart breaks as you watch the wonderful relationship get worse and worse. You watch as your love story crumples into a terribly sad love story. What happened?

What cause two people to break up? Two of the main reasons that many people breakup are because of lack of money, and because of lack of love. Money is very important, we all need it to survive. How people view money can lead to the breakup. Money is not evil, but the love of money is evil. Try to be more content with what you have. Changing your view of money is one way to keep the relationship together. Don’t spend more than you have and look for ways to romance each other for free, such as writing short love poems for each other. Who cares if they are cheesy.  The key to staying in love is to discuss how each of you view the future together. Work hard to stay in love and make your love life a love story, not a sad love story.

Your love story can be twisted into a sad love story quickly, if you loose the love. Unfortunately, many people stop loving each other. Now when you are in a marriage for years, people get busy. Kids, work, and life can get in the way of the two of you spending quality love time together. And one person may not want to make love as much as the other person, which causes the other person to feel unloved and neglected. It is very important to communicate once again. Communication is key. Talk to each other about how many times you each think that the two of you should be making love. Talk about it, so you know where the other person is coming from. Talk about it to make sure that you are not neglecting them.

HOW CAN SAD LOVE MOVIES/STORIES HELP YOU TO RECOVER AFTER BREAKUP??

Why do we like to hear about a sad love story? When we go through a breakup we like to read sad love stories or watch sad love movies, because we can relate. They can also help to release our anger and grief. Sad love movies can also help to let us know that we are not alone in our pain. Some of these sad love stories can even have a positive happy ending, which gives us hope. There is hope for the future, finding true love, and living happily ever after.

Why do we watch sad love movies when we are in a perfectly happy relationship though? What entices you about a sad love story? Is it the love? We are want to be loved. Watching love movies give you warm fuzzy emotions. And the sad endings happen in life as well. We all hope they will not happen to us, so it is better to watch it happen to someone else, not us.

Watching a sad love movie or reading a sad love story can also bring out the tears. Crying every once in a while can release the emotions and balance you out. Holding all of your emotions up in a ball is not good. So go and have a good cry, while reading your favorite love story. Do books make you cry? I have cried while reading a good book. Although, I don’t read many sad love stories. I enjoy reading happy romantic STORIES. However, I sometimes enjoy watching a sad love movie. And I have cried in a lot of them. It feels good to let it out sometimes.

Other times we may watch a sad love movie is when we have gone through a breakup. We like to lock ourselves up in our bedroom and watch movie after movie. Why do we pick a sad love story? Why not a happy romantic comedy? Well, sometimes a romantic comedy will make you even more sad, because you don’t have that happy romance anymore. You can relate to the sad love story. And watching the sad love movies can release any anger and tears that you had stored up. Watching a sad love movie can also remind you, that you are not alone. Many people have gone through bad breakups and they turn out all right at the end of the story.